Thursday, November 04, 2010

Nicaragua

Some of the girls at the orphanage. All total sweethearts, each with a different, very gripping story.

I am confounded by how quickly time flies in this laid-back, "Raff-time," "pick you up at ten-ISH," country. Really, the last week--I don't know where it went. Which is probably why I'm only now getting around to writing about my incredible time in the bonito, amable, complicado country of Nicaragua.

The orphanage I'm helping out at houses around 40 kids--actually, many of whom are not orphans. A lot of the kids here have families or extended families who may not have the parenting skills or the money to provide for their kids, so the orphanage takes care of them/feeds them during the week and some of the kids go home on the weekends.

I LOVE these children. Most of them have already gone through more heartache than all of us put together--but they are so joyful. So thankful to be taken care of. One girl here is 17 and grew up on the streets of the dangerous capital, Managua. She never got to go to school, but now she can read and write. She loves singing praise songs and talking on the swing set. Another thirteen-year-old boy's parents were murdered by robbers when he was ten. He plays piano and guitar (beautifully--naturally very talented); I almost cried when he played me and my roommate a song he wrote about how God is his father. Two girls and their little brother (11, 7, and 3) lost their mother soon after the youngest was born. Their dad works around the orphanage and their aunts live close-by, but they can't afford to take care of the kids. They are incredibly smart little girls--the top of their classes--and the younger one loves insects and knows everything about the local bugs: how they smell, which ones are poisonous. Every time I see her she has a new pet spider in her hand! Those girls are actually good at everything: sports, drawing, dancing, and being adorable. Gosh--so many stories--childhood is such a sweet time of life. One of the most ridiculously charming boys here, in the point at you and wink at you while he's walking by kind of way, which is especially precious from a five-year-old, started crying during the final fight scene in the animated movie "How to Tame Your Dragon" and used my hand to wipe his tears. A seven-year-old, very rambunctious boy was moping around all night because he missed his mom. The only thing that could lighten his mood was playing Bear vs. Wolf with him. I'm usually the bear, and he makes a pretty ferocious wolf--he loves howling.

I am learning a ton of Spanish here! Really, understanding almost everything and being able to communicate with most people here. My Spanish is way better than it was in Spain--not sure what happened in the last two years. :) I like the Nica accent--even though they don't use "tu" for the second person singular; they use "vos" (not like Spain's "vosotros"--it's totally different). I loooove the people here--incredibly laid-back, generous, helpful, not pushy, and with hearts of gold. Yesterday a guy who visits the orphanage regularly with some people from his church in Managua took his whole day off to drive me and my roommate to Mombacho volcano. When that one was closed--it was no big deal to him; he drove us to another volcano thirty minutes away.

Anyway, there's a lot more to say, but I can't hog the internet forever. :) Some more photos:

Michaela and I visiting some girls at an orphanage about 5 km from ours. They loved picking flowers for us and taking photos with us!

Three sisters playing in the community where our orphanage is located. The balloons were from a fiesta celebrating Colombus Day earlier that afternoon.

Spaghetti, a fried plantain, and the staple rice and beans. Not bad!

Granada, Nicaragua--about an hour and a half away. One of the most beautiful cities I've ever visited.

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Really great weekend

our limo ride! totally set the tone for the rest of that wonderful evening :)

eating CREPES in the Paris casino


Sisters No Misters trip to LAS VEGAS! Our farthest, most exciting trip thus far. Thank you, Aunt Tricia, for sponsoring our trip! And Aunt Kate, for letting us stay in your timeshare! We had a blast visiting Paris, Venice, seeing Cirque du Soleil, riding in a limo (Aunt Kate! thanks!), shopping, eating, etc.

communion before the wedding ceremony at Daniel's house

My bestie best friend Hannah just got married last weekend, too! It was a beautiful ceremony at an old Swedish Lutheran church in their small town in MN, officiated by Hannah and Daniel's dads, who are both pastors. Reception was also lovely--twinkle lights and zillions of Hannah's own cut flowers transformed their American Legion hall into a contra-dancer's paradise.

Cate y el dia terrible, horrible, espantoso, horroroso



Today was great, actually--but tonight was a little rough! I met up with Maggie Brown and my sister Jessica to talk about the logistics of bike riding from Canada to Mexico next summer (!! anyone else interested in coming?). At 5:45 I realized I was already supposed to be somewhere. Searching through my purse, I discovered I didn't have my keys. Went back inside--they were nowhere. Dangit. Must have left them in my car. Opened my car door with Jessica's last wire hanger and apparently left my purse on top of the car. Drove off. Realized in the car my purse wasn't there. Did I leave it at Jess's house? Tried calling her but my phone died on me before she had the chance to pick up!! You are kidding me.

Got in touch with Jessica. No purse there. Combed Main and Augusta Streets--trash cans, bushes--everything. No luck. :( Ordered a new debit card. Need to go to the DMV to get a new license tomorrow.

And I had just put a good chunk of cash in my wallet earlier today--which I never do!

Anyway, on the bright side, I got to catch up with some great people today. I'm going to Nicaragua in a week, for a month, to learn some Spanish and hang out with some orphans! My friend Logan worked at this orphanage outside of Managua (the capital) a few years back and hooked me up with the director, who told me to come on over! I am super excited! Just came up with my packing list today, including the book in the photo. And hopefully a debit card. :)

Sunday, September 05, 2010

Qualitative, not quantitative.

birthday party picnic at rock quarry garden

in Asheville with Leah and Carrie. We may or may not have made an Urban Outfitters detour immediately preceding the taking of this photo. :)

at the French Broad Chocolate Lounge in Ash-vegas before seeing Mates of State

Events from the last couple of weeks:
-I turned 26. I can now check the "26 to 30" bracket when subscribing for things like Table 301 newsletters. Dangit. :)
-Took the MCAT, again, on Thursday. Ah, what a relief to have that behind me!! I definitely worked hard for whatever score I will find I earned in six week's time.
-Have been going to some pretty killa weddings: Katie and Eric last weekend, and Catherine and Lyle this weekend.
-I'm looking into going to Nicaragua, or somewhere in Latin America, this fall... Maybe in October, even for just a few (or several) weeks. I had just been thinking about how neat it would be to help out in an orphanage (probably after seeing Alex's story on "This Emotional Life") (on Netflix watch instantly), when I met a girl at (two of my favorite people) Catherine and Lyle's wedding this weekend who worked at an orphanage in Nicaragua last summer, through an organization called Orphan Network. Nothing's set in stone yet. We'll just see where this late October brings me.
-In the meanwhile, I plan on working at the nursing home still (and/or anywhere else? It's hard to get a new job for only six weeks), go to yoga with Anna/Jessica/Eliz/Carrie/Haley weekly (call me!), :) do an interview with VCOM's early decision panel Sept. 16 (!!), go to VEGAS with the sisters, and see my best friend Hannah get married to a kind-hearted Minnesotan.
-I want to do more artwork this year. Ummm... hold me to that! I'm thinking about creating some silhouettes. Gotta love them. I'd also like to get into med school this year, go hiking waaaay more, read a lot, and learn muchissimo mas de Espanol. Oh, and I want to use the pasta maker I just got for my birthday. Viva la cucina italiana!

Notice I'm speaking using qualitative terms, not quantitative. After 26 years, I know myself better than to do otherwise. :)

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Kreisler's plays Kreisler

Liebesleid ("Love's Sorrow")--isn't this piece named appropriately? So moving.

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Love Poem



When we are in love, we love the grass,
And the barns, and the lightpoles,
And the small main streets abandoned all night.
-Robert Bly

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Some of my (new) favorite things

An 1862 map of South America--I won it in a daily map giveaway through http://www.rare-maps.com/contest.cfm. You should enter! You'll probably win a map at some point before the year's up.

Blue suitcases = great storage and decoration. Inspired by Elizabeth May and Soule Mama :)

My new Canon Rebel--YAY!!!

Got to bring the new camera on a trip to PA last week to meet my new niece Natalie and see her not as new sister Olivia. We love both of them soooo much! (Also, got to see my wonderful Grandpa in Ohio the next few days.)

Anna and me with the cuties

Sunday, May 16, 2010

My Mom

This will be kind of the third post in my series of "influential people in my life," started about a year ago after Father's Day. What better time to write this than a week after Mother's Day, right?? :)




Some of the many things I admire about my mom:

1) She has the most beautiful smile in the world. She really does--I think the word "beaming" best describes the way my mom shares her joy with the world.
2) She is one of the warmest, friendliest people I know, never neglecting the opportunity to strike up a conversation with someone new.
3) She likes to look out for the little guy/is not a respecter of persons. Whether it was taking us to visit the shut-in as kids or telling us to be friends with girls who don't have too many friends at school, she's always tried to teach her daughters to be kind to people who might need a little more "looking out for" than the average Jane.
4) Mom is very perceptive about people. This probably stems from her not being a respecter of persons and the wisdom she has gained over the years. All my sisters and I have noticed over the years that she's usually right about people, but we appreciate that she's not quick to judge.
5) She's one of the most thoughtful people I know, too--always dropping off care packages or little notes for people at the post office.
6) She has born into this world and raised six daughters. Nuff said.
7) She is the BEST when you are sick. She gets Gatorade, medicine, blankets, sometimes little presents, and just checks up on you in this quiet, very caring, unselfish way. It's almost worth it getting sick because she is such a great nurse.
8) She's really good with words: she always knows what to say to encourage people or make them feel great. She also has a stunning vocabulary and likes to pull out a "pusillanimous" every once in a while, which makes us all laugh.
9) She's what you'd call a "woman of faith"--like my friend Haley, you do know what's important to Mom soon after knowing her. And, she's a fighter--she doesn't give up when hard times come, which they do.
10) She has a sensitive heart. She believes in the Spirit's leading and she often examines her own heart--such an important attribute if you want to grow.

Fun facts about Mom:
1) She married my dad when she was 21 and he was 33, immediately becoming a caretaker of two teenage boys.
2) When she was little, she wanted to be a nun, and then the first "Saint Sheila." I think this explains a lot of her current, seriously, saintliness.
3) In my family, we have inherited our lack of punctuality from her, not my dad...
4) She's got a fantastic eye for interior decorating.
5) She has a lovely singing voice--a hidden talent she should share with the world!

Monday, April 26, 2010

Inspiration

Just thought I'd share a couple stories of people who've been inspiring me lately:

1) A little English woman who came to the nursing home a few days ago. Marqueea and I had to figure out how to assemble her jigsaw-puzzle-like back brace before she could get out of bed that day, and she didn't want to waste any more time IN THAT BED! This 80-year-old woman (who looks about 65) had gotten a stress fracture in her vertebrae, a broken rib, and a badly bruised shoulder from hiking the week before. Hiking has been a favorite pastime for the last 30 years, and before that she and her husband were avid cyclers, biking around the UK, the Netherlands, and Belgium (which I really want to do now!). Oh, and in the last two years she has hiked to Machu Picchu and spent a month in Costa Rica studying the local flora and fauna (another two things I definitely want to do at some point). She's been taking Spanish classes the past couple years (cool, huh?), but says she confuses the language with the French she learned in high school. This lady ROCKS. I'm sure she'll be back on the trail in no time.

2) My good friend Haley. We did dinner a few nights ago. Not only is she a beautiful and delightful person, but she is also one of the sweetest, godliest, most humble people I know. I am always a little taken aback, in a really good way, when I hear her telling one of her prayer stories--how she was praying that God would help her love people on the way to the clinic that day, like she does every day, and listen to what God had to teach her about love. I appreciate her openness, unjadedness, and honesty. I love that she would rather talk about how to love like Jesus than debate theology. She is one of those rare people who, when you get to know her just a little bit, you know what she's all about--following Him more nearly. Very cool girl. If you haven't met her yet, you should go out of your way to do so ASAP.

Tuesday, April 06, 2010

A week in Minnesota

Hannah watering her flowers in the greenhouse: lilacs, lupines, statice, dahlias--all to be bouquets at this summer's market.

Last week I got to visit my dear organic-farming best friend Hannah, her beautiful, great-with-child sister Rebecca and dexterous brother-in-law Joe, in the rolling country of southeast Minnesota, about a half hour from Rochester. About thirty minutes after pulling up to the farm in Hannah's red '91 Tercel, I milked my very first cow, Frieda. :) Milking a cow is HARD, I learned. Hannah's about four times as fast as I am, but I think if I milked twice a day like she does, in a couple months, I could get the hang of it.

Hannah milking Frieda

tenacious Frieda

Hannah and I got to have lots of espresso-talks, just like old times, transplant baby flowers in the greenhouse, make butter from Frieda's milk (isn't that awesome??), check the maple trees for sap (which is actually just water--not sticky, like you think of it. And it takes 40 gallons of sap to make one gallon of delicious maple syrup!), feed her chickens, cook really good food, eat really good food, speculate about the new baby, and get to know her boyfriend and other friends a little. Such a delightful week.

Oh yeah, did I mention we watched Season 4 of LOST every night? Just like last time Hannah and I saw Becca and Joe at their farm in NY! :)

Back home, with Danny at the pool the day I got back, to be followed by a delicious shrimp and mushroom pasta he made me!

Friday, March 05, 2010

Norovirus

I've had to miss work at the nursing home the last two days due to infection with the highly contagious Norovirus--the illness that struck over 400 of 1800 passengers on a Celebrity cruise ship late last month. It's been going around the nursing home the last week or so. It's HORRIBLE--I hope you never get it!! Really, two nights ago was the worst night I think I've ever experienced. And, guess what: alcohol doesn't kill it. And you can get it from contact with just ten of the virus particles. Oh, and you won't become immune to it just because you've had it before. It's bad!

In other news, I had an interview with the Medical College of Virginia / Virginia Commonwealth University last month--I felt like it went well! It was really great to get to catch up with one of my best friends from middle school, Sheinei, who's in grad school up there. She, Danny and I grabbed Thai food the night before my interview and she gave me a pep talk (which Danny told her to do while I was in the bathroom :)--sneaky!).

My Aunt Kate is visiting from NM. She and my parents are at the beach right now--I'm supposed to join them, with a few sisters--hopefully I'll be well enough to go in the morning.

Friday, January 15, 2010

The last several months

Sorry I haven't written in so long! I've actually started a few blogs and then just haven't finished them. These days there seems to always be something else hanging over my head (that's commanding more of my attention than my blog)... right now it's secondary applications for med schools. And working at a nursing home--which I love! But here are a few photographic highlights since JULY!

One of my New Years Resolutions is to blog more, which shouldn't be too hard at the rate I'm going right now! :)

Danny telling me to study for the MCAT, Cate! Probably 90% of the first months of our relationship were spent in a coffee shop studying.


Elizabeth and I playing tennis this summer. Have to say, we're both pretty bad... but I'm worse!


The day we watched the National Parks documentary premier on PBS, Danny and I went hiking in Pisgah. Lovely fall day.

Leah and I went camping with her church--such fun.

Haley and me going "wild" at the Greenville Zoo.

Elizabeth, Ellen and I in NYC--we got to stay with the lovely Erika Grace Powell. Trip of the year :).

Biz and Tim got married in Memphis December! What a party!! Hannah and I were honored to be in the wedding.